today is Sunday,
a rest day for me!not busy and haunted by school jobs or volunteer jobs～but now me also extremely tiring with my new hse renovation~because not much money to renovate, every items need to survey the price and quality before buy it~seemed really hard to overcome this period of time~and wish this period of time may bear a nice fruits for me~hehehehehe....
now i really know what my elder brothers told me that not easy to be a fully time house owner~~hehehehehehe....my dear friends,please blessing me that i may move in my new house smoothly ~jiayo oh!!! but by the way i learn a lot during this period!a nice gift from GOD to drill me to be a wiser person~~hahaha
Sunday 22 April 2012
beloved one
hi my dear friends,
long time im not drop in my blog due the mountain loaded works cant be UNLOADED in the planning period!!!!maybe im a lazy man~
today my tittle is beloved ONE～WAO...seemed im in the dating period now but sadly to say that im NOt~~hahaha...always we heard that peoples said "when in love period, the love will cover the eyes and our mind" izit true?do u agree of it?it maybe or not also~but what i observed nearly 90% of the couples have this situation~a very care cleanliness man will cover his eyes n let his gf to put the clothes not at the correct place, but he not even touched or care of this matters~or she just let her bottles or glasses after drank it just to let there waiting to ants to taste her drink!for me, for sure she will be mumbling by me and like my mummy said she will RUN away from me because of my weird attitudes!!!hahahahahaha...i agreed what my mummy said..
coming back to the my title, if i said won get into that situation sure my dear friends not believe on me~i learn this lesson before with my x-gf~i tq her so much because she let me a mirror to reflect who am i and how i need to be a good bf....so finally i gave up her because i noe that im not the best and ideal bf or a husband to her~i will try to learn from my lover n see who am i...then to avoid that i LOST in my life because of LOVE~
thats easy to say or to write a word of LOVE but not AN EASY TASK to do~some peoples using SEX as a measure tape to measure how the relationship going!it totally WRONG!too much of definition regarding of love....as i learn n my own opinion toward love is i must know how to love myself and my beloved parents then we go for love the one who u loooking for in ur life WITHOUT LOST urself because he or she~
without urself the love u given out not the truly one n for sure the person who be with u will feel on u~believe or not?
Tuesday 3 April 2012
comparison from "zen"
Comparison brings inferiority, superiority. When you don't compare, all inferiority, all superiority, disappears. Then you are, you are simply there. A small bush or a big high tree--it doesn't matter; you are yourself. You are needed. A grass leaf is needed as much as the biggest star. Without the grass leaf God will be less than he is. This sound of the cuckoo is needed as much as any Buddha; the world will be less, will be less rich if this cuckoo disappears. Just look around. All is needed, and everything fits together. It is an organic unity: nobody is higher and nobody is lower, nobody superior, nobody inferior. Everybody is incomparably unique.
Who ever told you that the bamboo is more beautiful than the oak, or the oak more valuable than the bamboo? Do you think the oak wishes it had a hollow trunk like this bamboo? Does the bamboo feel jealous of the oak because it is bigger and its leaves change color in the fall? The very idea of the two trees comparing themselves to each other seems ridiculous, but we humans seem to find this habit very hard to break. Let's face it, there is always going to be somebody who is more beautiful, more talented, stronger, more intelligent, or apparently happier than you are. And conversely, there will always be those who are less than you in all these ways. The way to find out who you are is not by comparing yourself with others, but by looking to see whether you are fulfilling your own potential in the best way you know how.
Who ever told you that the bamboo is more beautiful than the oak, or the oak more valuable than the bamboo? Do you think the oak wishes it had a hollow trunk like this bamboo? Does the bamboo feel jealous of the oak because it is bigger and its leaves change color in the fall? The very idea of the two trees comparing themselves to each other seems ridiculous, but we humans seem to find this habit very hard to break. Let's face it, there is always going to be somebody who is more beautiful, more talented, stronger, more intelligent, or apparently happier than you are. And conversely, there will always be those who are less than you in all these ways. The way to find out who you are is not by comparing yourself with others, but by looking to see whether you are fulfilling your own potential in the best way you know how.
"holidays"
hi, long time not even log in my blog~ this was because too busy to unload my mountain jobS!!! finally i got one more extra holiday due i was fell sick: shore throat, gastric, coughing and flu!!!!usually we may order espresso with single or double shot, now im much more perfect took double double shot; four types sickness!!kekekekeke....this type of holidays not nice to spend because a lot of "sweets" by doctor!!!!
this told me that im not a good timing planner because i may not able to settle my jobs well till i got sick now~also can said if not sick, i won face the computer and drop my words in my blog~hihihih...
this told me that im not a good timing planner because i may not able to settle my jobs well till i got sick now~also can said if not sick, i won face the computer and drop my words in my blog~hihihih...
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