when driving back from yoga class, suddenly pop out a memories of dating life~now i just found out when two persons stick together not an easy job!why i said so?hehehe...once we meet someone we like there such a pulling energy pulling you n her/him together just like the magnet do!what's a wonderful magic~~is easy to stick but not easy to keep and maintain this kind of relationship~two different peoples come from different family and so...live together is what's a hard "examination".....there so much things we need to consider the other because now no more stay or live alone~there is someone you love be with you~sure you included me will trying to get her/him the best so he/she will feel happiness because those will show how much you love he/she!!!!!!!!important point oh~~~by the way, is it that's call LOVE?do you ever think over what the LOVE inner meaning is?
after my yoga class, my mind clear and let me the answer of this question of LOVE in my life~for me LOVE doesn't mean you give all the best YOU THINK is good for he/she~i must know the way HOW TO LOVE MYSELF 1st then i know how to love others especially the one we looking for the rest of our life~we need to find out the needs of he/she then using their ways to love them~let me give an example "i think eat an apple is good for health, but do u ever think that he/she like eat an apple?" we keep telling he/she how the apple good for health~just because he/she also love you,he/she will start to take an apple even he/she not like to eat~so is it so called "LOVE"? just now i found that my ex-gf, she dont like eat vegetarian foods but im the one like it so much~she wish me happy then she started to like it and learn to eat...honestly she not really used to it!!hahaha....why i so slow?now i discovered this matter~~hahaha...
not because of this she n i chose to be single again!hahaha...if you wish to love someone or u do love someone, please try to figure out the way you love he/she is right to the point or not???????
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